Why Death Is So Remorseful

Why Death Is Remorseful!!!
Just past few days ago we dedicated 15 entire days to our ancestors, forefathers and the dead related to us in the form of 'Shrad'. We aimed to pacify their souls and get their blessings and moreover feared the curse that may lay upon us through our fore figure souls. The culture, the rituals and our beliefs all make us to do so. One day I was seeing a wagon carrying a dead body draped in white and decorated with garland and flowers. The dead had no place except the floor though it was all in new and clean while the rest were not. It was a moment of sad departure of a life which is an extreme contradiction to our usual happy bid adieus and departures with our loved one. We wish them goodbyes, blessings, happiness, gifts and kisses. 

Every living creature react in the same way for the death of their loved ones. The animals, birds, mammals and every evolved species who can express and react mourn and grieve over death. At every spot of death departure there is silence of grief, fires and cremations with tears, remorse and agony with cries, gathering and bid-adieu. The death and soul are always a part of question in mind and fear in heart. 

Nobody wants to die and we all fear death. Poisonous animals like snakes, lizards, scorpion, fish, frogs, spiders have armors as venom to protect from their predators and causing their death. Camouflage in some animals  like chameleon, birds, insects, moths, fish etc are the preventive measure provided by nature to save them from every reason causing their death. Even the nature prevents them from being killed as if it remorse their death on this earth and gives everyone a chance to live and survive. 

Live and Survive!!!!! The two words gasps my breath hard and fervent. Though we all fear death still in human  dictionary we get the guts to call 'Suicide' a cowards attempt. The Irony to still await and stand, the attempt to reach death and surpassing its fear is not appreciable at all. Every religion, law and thoughts have denied the attempt towards death. The answers lies in the two former words i used that gasped my breath " To live and survive".

One of the 3 things that changed the Life of Siddharth and made him to become a monk was 'Death'. Young son of a king saw the instance of poverty, illness and death when he stepped out of his palatial and luxurious palaces and made him realize the truth of life and leaded his journey towards finding answers to these questions raised in his soul as a saint. 

We all reach thousands of questions and beliefs in the name of death in our life and we gain and share numerous experiences till we ourselves face the ultimate fearful truth. Inspite of being the ultimate truth of life, knowing that we all are born to die one day. We do and we will remorse and fear death in our lives.

Rendezvous With Beautifying Beauties In My Way to Life!!!!!!

Rendezvous With Beautifying Beauties In My Way to Life
Beauty starts with two words BE! That says to Exist, To Personify, To Embody something inside or outside, wherever we can. Whatever do we say, whatever do we believe everyone has its own ideated thoughts, beliefs, experiences about beauty and beautiful things in their life. To write about beauty is quite a tough task. To talk about beauty is even tougher in the world of today’s expansion, orientation and development. Visible beauty is everywhere available but still nowhere available to us.
Real beauty of woman to go by dictionary is not what my statement is meant to be. I quietly try to churn my memory back to things and moments that has made me realize about the existence of that beauty somewhere in my life. YES! Exactly I would say The Essence, The Aura of feminine beauty somewhere around me.  
My first Introduction To Real Beauty!!!!!

Unassailable Maternity As A Bless To All Of Us

My mother might not be great character to be published and bound in books but YES! She is a point to dedicate my words of real beauty. She has made me see how the responsibilities of life are held and performed though it might be just at a family level. But it was just fabulous. She made me realize that what dedication and perseverance means to life and how much importance they pay to give you things in your hand in your life. She made me find and feel that How! Being at the top of the family you still can keep your head and eyes down without being too pride, holding down to earth attitude ready to give more and more in others hands.
I have seen due to her that what really and to what extend, Feminity  has in her herself to give everything to everyone in life . She was married at an early age to my father when he was not even independent simultaneously and has the responsibility of entire family (sisters, brothers) on his shoulders to make them independent and settle as well. He being the soul driver for his family but this has never been possible and so easy without the help of the soul mate sent for him for life long assistance. To stand behind him, care for him and his decisions and his family. YES! The point of real beauty my Mother Darling!!!!!!!  
I really put my Salute and bow to the purity of heart and unselfish attitude, dedication tributed by mother for the nurture and care equally for entire family YES!! THE FAMILY!!!!

Vows To The Beauty Of Maternity That Is Unassailable!!!!!   
 Seeing my mother I get to realize what a mother is for life. What important role does she plays in every task of love, care, upbringing, values, learning, I saw my mother and her dedication. I learnt and realized about the motherliness. It’s the beauty of the relation that mother shares with her child that makes it so dedicated an unselfish. I was amazed and mesmerized about maternity and its dedication to her child and his life. She does not have anything except to give and give to every possible extent she can. Nothing can be more beautiful than maternity on this earth; there never comes a moment that she thinks about herself. From the very step of child birth to the ever lived life she bears the pain and pain in herself so easily and smilingly. I really bow my heads down and in fact we all should in the name of every mother and pain she bears in her life for us
I have no words to define my astonishment seeing the love that god has for us as his child. He cannot be everywhere every time so he just made mother at his place.  

How Beautiful I Am!!!!!!
As I grew up things got changed and developed, surroundings and circumstances got changed from mothers lap to harder environments of setbacks and failures, highs and lows, ups and downs. A small nurtured soul from her mother lap got acquainted with so many new things. From family surroundings changed to friends and friends, and I came across with so many new things of life gaining experience and experiences and experiences with all. So what does experiences has to do with beauty here. YES IT HAS!!!! With so many experiences of life, heart and mind I got a quality of realization of things around us and pondering over the situation as they come across
The grown mind and soul realized about the beauty of that the creator has given around us. YES!!!!
Neither well does anyone boasts of oneself being beautiful nor do I too. But still there is something beautiful that has been appreciated really by people around me. I never realized the qualities in me. Never did I have a mirror which can speak of my beauty in front of me. I was very quite, simple introvert kind of a person at my college days but yeah true and pure with heart, respecting and welcoming everyone with warm heart. I never knew and realized what I am!!!!! Until the friends came in life at college as my Mirror to speak abut me..
I still remember there comments, compliments and in our friendship that lead me to learn so many new more things about me. It was the beauty of life in form of god’s bless s to give people around who made me feel and look more good and beautiful

Every Taste And Nutrition Is A Care Of God You

Grateful to the Effervescent God’s Beautiful Care For Us !!!!!!!!
Every taste you enjoy ,every nutrition you intake, every resource you utilize is the love of nature and GOD for you. Ranging from the bite of an apple to the Gush of rains. From the grain of wheat to the magmatic exploded lava of volcano. From the fish in the pond to the plethora of mineral resources of the oceans. Is there any name that we can deny which our creator has not given to us as his CARE!!  To all of us equally. If you don’t believe just ask a simple question what does He get by giving these to us and for all living being.  

We can never see him but every bit of air we breathe in, every breeze felt touched by, every sound let heard, every taste sumptuously enjoyed, every pleasure worldly gained, every smile passed through, every emotion let lived, makes you realize. What could be more beautiful than the creator of all these things for us THE NATURE, THE GOD. YES!! Ironically in this very much affected technological and gadget full world. We do know what our service and product providers have given us and do follow their loyalty. BUT WE FORGET TO EVEN THANK TO OUR CREATOR                                                                                                                  

Life Is Beautiful In Every Experience Gained    

I am the reared child of my mother. I take pride for this among the other siblings. She never instructed to learn good things and values in life but it was just being nurtured and seeing those things got inculcated themselves in us. Every moment lived with life, and circumstances held with eyes and mind has given me a thought to believe that how beautiful the life is. GOD Knows like our mother who we are and what we are. What we have and what we need at every step of our life.  Life is beautiful when I realize that He has sent all of us for some or other reasons to live for task to perform and destinations to reach.  It is the beauty of all the phases lived that makes you learn and gain so many experiences in life that one day you be proud of them. Try to recall every setback and failure lived by us, which can either make you weak or has the capacity to make you the strongest to move ahead in life and reach your destinations. Life has its own way to put you in questions and achieve the answers yourself and find your path to live.  Life has its own beauty when its makes you feel and realize that you too are precious among million of people and He stands out there to answer your prayer and also protects you from every hazard of life  
What Could Be More Beautiful Than Eternal Blissful Love
Largely have I admire about motherliness, our creator, his care and love for us. But there again is beauty of emotions felt and sentiments lived, which again GOD had gifted to us YES…THE HUMANS!!!! Many dictionaries do define and describe about love and true love. Man is born to selfishness, but the one thing that breaks the boundary and make an another life more beautiful and loveable than yourself is LOVE.

The Ecstasy, The Bliss of being in love with someone is indefinable and beyond any explanation. When you fall in love with someone the emotions are unexplainably unique, when someone falls in love with you. What you are!!!!  How and what you be!!!!  And accepts you as the most loveable things in his her life that beauty of feelings is beyond any description. To write about LOVE is infinite and eternity. But could say  that it is the most beautiful things of life as it is the amalgam of so many good entities and emotions of life which only humans can have.
REPECT+ CARE+ DEDICATION+UNSELFISHNESS+ THE BLISS+TEARS+AGONY= LOVE
There is no emotion that cannot be lived being in LOVE. Happiness, ecstasy , tears, sadness, agony, pain, pleasure, fun etc. Love is the most beautiful because the gifted sentiments from the two souls combine and beat to the rhythms of heart. If you can really dare try to be in LOVE and you will say it beautiful.  
At Last............................................................
What I try to write can never end, with each experience and observation I would say there is beauty all around us . Something that I had already said that we are living in a completely privileged and cared environment of our nature. But then still there is something that in spite of having so much beauty around us we still lack it in us. The question is what is that kills the beauty Our Desires, Our Ambitions or what,that has made to bifurcate life into ugly and beautiful. Had we really preserved the beauty sent by god in us and for us we would not have required to feel lack of it around us .
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Veer Maa Ko Naman

वीर माँ…………

तुझको नमन है तुझसे चमन है ,
तुझसे ये धरा, तुझसे ये गगन है
हर वीर क़ी मातृ को
सर्वस्व शत शत नमन है

वीर माँ क़ी लहु का लौह
आब वीरता क़ी आन है

वीर माँ क़ी ममता का समर्पण
अब देश भक्ति का परीणाम है!

वीर माँ के सत्य का प्रतीक
अब ये सजग वीर महान है

वीर माँ के मन का धैर्य

अब अडिग निडर क़ी शान है !

वीर माँ के वचन क़ी प्रेरणा
अब वीर क़ी शपथ क़ी शान है !
वीर माँ के हर स्वरूप पर
हर पुत्र को अभिमान है!

वीर माँ का निस्चल स्वभाव
हर शहीद क़ी पहचान है!

वीर माँ के कृतग्य हम है
जिस से हर जॅन मे जान है

तुझसे ये धरती, तुझसे ये सुख है
सम्भव सब त्योहार है!

वीर माँ तेरे चरणो मे हर पुत्र का प्रणाम है
……. हर पुत्र का प्रणाम 

SALUTING TO BRAVE MOTHERS !!!!!!
WO HAI TO ….YE VEER SAINIK HAI …..
AUR JAB TAK YE VEER SAINIK HAI TAB TAK HAM HAI…..SURAKSHIT AUR SAMMANIIT APNI DESH KI DHARTI PAR
JAI HIND………
JAI MAA……….
JAI BHARAT ………

Shayad Jeet Jaaun..Shayad Haar Jaaun

शायद जीत जाऊं ......शायद हार जाऊं

शायद जीत जाऊं 
शायद हार जाऊं
मन में ऐसी कौन सी रीत लाऊं 
दुःख के आँचल मे कौन सा मीत लाऊं
मै खुश थी अपने अरमानो के आशियाने मे
बस सोचती और कितने अपने पर फैलाऊं
मुझे दिखते मेरे आसमान के और कैसे करीब जाऊं

शायद जीत जाऊं 

शायद हार जाऊं

मन में ऐसी कौन सी रीत लाऊं 

मन की उडती धूल को किन बूंदों ने बैठा दिया

अब शायद ही मेरा रास्ता मै तो ढूंढ़ पाऊँ

कुछ टूट कर बिखरता सा मेरी आँखों से बह गया

कुछ दर्द मे सिमटता सा कहीं आह मे रह गया

मेरी कोशिश के पर है अभी ठन्डी बर्फ जैसे 

डर है मुझे की दर्द की तपिश मे कहीं गल के ना रह जाऊं

मुझे दिखते मेरे आसमान के और कैसे करीब जाऊं

अंतर्वेदना मेरे मन की 

अंतर्द्वंद मेरे जेहन की

शायद जीत जाऊं 

शायद हार जाऊं

मन में ऐसी कौन सी रीत लाऊं 

दुःख के आँचल मे कौन सा मीत लाऊं

(all of us have dreams and we all face tough moments in life following our dreams, here the poem says the same how the ups and downs come in life , we get tear in eyes and pain but never allow tear of heart in follow up of our dream becoz we all love it more than anything else. We keep follow up of our dreams ready to face face unknown hurdles and obstacles)

Mar Gaya Mai Aaj Mujhey Naa Bulana

मर गया मै आज, मुझे ना बुलाना!
भूल गया मै इंसानियत, देख कर ऐसा ज़माना!


कहीं मदद को पाँव ठहरते है नहीं!
मूंद लेता हूँ मै आंखे देख कर किसी की जरुरत!


चुप ही रहता हूँ  जान  कर भी बुरी कोई हकीकत
छोड़ दिया मैने इंसान को इंसान समझना!


छूट गयी आदत जबान से प्रेम कहना
मर गया आज मै मुझे ना बुलाना!


दर्द से किसी के मै पिघलता हू नहीं!
बिना जरुरत स्वार्थ के संभालता हूँ  नही!


किसी के फर्क से मै मन से मचलता हूँ नहीं !
मर गया खुदा का जब वो बनाया इंसान 


समझ लेना मै भी आज अब जिंदा हूँ नहीं!
मर गया आज मै, मुझे ना बुलाना!


तन को अग्नी मे जला के कोई क्या मरे!
मन के एह्साह को मार के मै तो आज ज़िंदा हूँ नहीं!


मर गया खुदा का जब वो बनाया इंसान 
समझ लेना आज मै भी ज़िंदा हूँ नहीं!

It's Only The Love!!!!

Muungfaliwala( Mungfali versus Chaumeen)

मूंगफली वाला!!!
अपनी हंडिया की गर्मी से वो मूंगफली खिला रहा था!
और सामने खड़ा चाउमीन वाला फटाफट प्लेट भर भर चाउमीन खिला रहा था!
कोहरा और ठण्ड और रास्ते का किनारा !
मूंगफली वाला बैठा ताके हर राही का सहारा !


अपनी मूंगफली पर बिचारा इतराता कैसे !
कुहरे की धुंध मे, हंडिया के धुंवे से, राही मे चाव  जगाता कैसे!


माटी की खुशबू मे खूब भूंजी है, टुकुर टुकुर बतला रहा था!
चाउमीन वाला चीन की तरह जोर तरक्की दिखला रहा था!


दोनों नरम थी, दोनों गरम थी, दोनों सड़क पर थी आमने सामने !
बदला चस्का और चाव  स्वाद का आज समय ये उसको जता रहा था !


वही काढ़ाही , वही आग, वही दोनों गरीब 
पर चाउमीन वाले की भरी गरम जेब 
मूंगफली वाले की भरी गरम डलिया को जाते जाते ठेंगा दिखा रहा था!

What it takes to be a girl!!! Nothing…. Just!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What it takes to be a girl!!! Nothing…. Just!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

•       Just a simple list of obedient lawful instructions from every elder member of family (girlzz you just cant ignore and skip it)
•      A simple paved path as follow up of life(girlzz you cant slip on it)
•      A simple betrayal from your dream coz they might be costly than you are worth(hey you buy accessories and make ups better)

# A just another awaited approval over your desires from others

      coz you are not made to be decisive about yourself

#A simple out and out possession of meek gestures and postures

•       coz society keeps an eyes on you making all  the girls to sit at home
•      coz one day you need to be groomed and ultimately grow as a perfect girl
•       coz you need to learn to listen to everyone around you without a reactive attitude

# An all time cutie, beauty, treaty look

•        coz one day that will be asked for your matrimonial you know..(you bet it)

#A flinched quietude attitude

•    Lest no friend falls in love with you

 # A murky, jerky side walk on road, Mind you! To save you from eve teasing

# A dual tech training i.e. homely plus educated gorgeous, Mind it! Still free of words, voice and mind…!!haa

#A meek mute charactered attitude

•    Coz future wives are not at all appreciated and accepted with shrilly voice

Hey come on guys you dint like reading it here…of course you would not …you  just have to reading ….and this is they all just face man

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Where Do You Keep Your Pity For Them

He was walking lame. He was weak. His two hind legs were bent and creeping and his forelegs were trying to pull them and walk. The blackish brown weak tender body of the dog, I gazed. He was crossing the heavy traffic road with high speed vehicles and the heavy rush on road could have killed him. But it was same ordained destiny that had made him lame was saving him from being kicked and killed under speedy monsters.

I, at once got my eyes over the lame animal on road, as I was also trying to cross the road but feared the horrendous steel monsters. The lame creature on the road grabbed my attention, pushed my hearts beat up, when I saw him just at an inch of distance from the wheels of a rowdy vehicle. Ah! To the almighty’s grace he was saved and kept crawling bent on his weak legs.

His weakness, his difficulty to walk was obvious, they just struck to my eyes and my heart grew pity on him. My eyes got filled with moist questions. God! Why have you made such a dumb creature lame and week? His quietude and dumbness in itself is a curse and now you have made him lame too, leaving him into the hands of inhumanity to meet his fate and death.

I realized, he was being suffered because he is an animal. He was being ignored because he is an animal. He was being killed because he is an animal. A weak, numb and dumb animal! My heart grew filled with pity as a weak dumb animal was suffering and wandering like this for his survival. And we, to the least, I could not do nothing. In fact the truth is that we all have inculcated to show an anomalous behavior toward our animals. Yes we have! It is because in none of our interests and requirements of our daily lives they are needed now.

This is just one of the incidents that come across our eyes of ill treatment, ill behavior and attitude towards these animals. The hit and dead animals’ body lying and decaying on roads, pelting of stray animals like cows, dogs, cats, hungry animals feeding on dumps and garbage is quite common. Though we are responsible for their habitat less condition, making them wandering for food, shelter and safety, proudly pronounce them to be called as stray animals.

So many incidents keep coming across eyes and we all docile humans are learning to become dumb animals acquiring this inhuman behavior. A man is a social animal and has been allowed by almighty to live our lives along with beautiful nature bountiful diverse animals. But what we are living for is still to be realized, rendering the ecology of earth being poorly hindered.

• ·         Tigers being killed, is now being bemoaned with roars of Save! Them.
• ·         Sea creatures breaths are being diluted with concentrated profitable but oil spill mistakes.
• ·         Elephants being punished with death for their big Tusky show up.
• ·         Perching birds coming near home are being punished with shocking currents over their candid freedom behavior.
• ·         Reptile snakes are beaten to repent on their mistaken rattled entry in our homes.
• ·         Hungered wandering monkeys now are a part menace on our terrace and our land as they don’t know where to swing now.
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• Who is harming whom is still a debate and who will save who will always be a question. Neither my pity could do anything to make them live and survive nor could reading of this concerned article bring a change in our attitude towards our animals. Only a step is needed to become again humans and realize importance of our ecological system, love, learn and respect it for every living creature without finding them as a hindrance in our fast growing urbanization and development.

Remember we need them and will always need them.

Love animals and value their lives

Ehsaas!!!! Wo Sachchey Pal Zindagee Key

एहसास!!! वो सच्चे पल ज़िन्दगी के

एहसास वो है जिसे मन की आंखे, वो जिससे अतमा के कण सुनते है और वो जिससे दिल की धडकने पढ़ती है ! वो जिसे पढने के लिया शब्द की जरुरत नहीं होती! जो बिना किसी रूप के भी दिख जाता है! जो बिना शब्दों के भी सुना जाता है! और वो जो मीलो सफ़र तय  कर के भी आप तक पहुँच सकता है, अपने सुन्दर  और पवित्र रूप मे अनजाना होते ही भी पहचाना जा सकता है!

 एहसास है 

रोश्नी की तरह खुद मे सातों रंग संजोये

खुशबू की तरह,किसी भी जगह कही भी दीवारों  से परे जा सकता है !

पानी की तरह, निर्मल और शीतल है जिससे तन और मन को छूने से संतुस्टी होती है! 

निराकार है, हवा की तरह पास आकर भी दूर जाता है और दूर जाकर फिर पास लौट आता है!

एहसास की खूबसूरती और पवित्रता इसलिए है की हम शब्द बोल कर बहुत कुछ कह सकते है और बता देते है! पर जो बात इंसान जबान से ना कह कर खामोशी मे भी बयान कर दे, और दूसरा उसे  महसूस कर ले तो उसकी सत्यता और अस्तित्व का अलग ही वर्णन और रूप होता है! 

जब शिशु जन्म लेता है तो माँ को शब्दों की जरुरत  नहीं होती, माँ का स्पर्श , माँ का प्यार ही हमे ये एहसास दिला देता है की वो कितनी समर्पित है अपने सन्तान के लिए! जन्म से लेकर युवावस्था तक माँ कितनी बार कहती है की वो हमे प्यार करती है पर  उसके दिए छोटे छोटे सुख से, उसे लाड से, उसके बलिदान से अपने बच्चों के प्रती उसका प्यार उसका समर्पण महसूस हो ही जाता है! 

एहसास ही है जिसने शब्दों की दुनिया को पीछे छोड़ रखा है, और शब्दों के झूठ और जाल से पर्दा हटाता रहता है! एहसास सच की राह मे चलता हुआ रिश्तों के बंधन के सच को दर्शाता है, झूठ-कपट के डाले पर्दों को  तोड़ कर सच का चेहरा दिखाता है!

• मन मे किसी के प्यार का एहसास हो तो चाहे  लाख उससे नाराजगी हो कोई उससे ज्यादा दिन दूर नहीं रह सकता! 
• कोई कितनी भी बड़ी गलती केर ले पर यदि उसके मन मे अगर उसकी गलती का एहसास है तो उसे बड़ी से बड़ी अदालत भी छमा कर देती है!
• जिसको अपने लक्ष्य से अपनी द्रढ़ता का एहसास है उसे दुनिया मे कोई भी मुश्किल हतोत्साहित नहीं कर सकती है! 
• ज़िंदगी मे अगर किसी  के साथ होने  का एहसास है तो तो जिन्दगी की हर मुश्किल असं लगती है सुर उसका हल भी निकलत है!
• इस दुनिया मे लाने वाला ईस्वर भी तो हमरे आगे मूक ही रहता है वो कही भी शब्द से नज़र नहीं अता है! पर फिर भी हमारे चारो ओर उसके हनी का एहसास है! वो कभी नहीं कहता की मई हूँ, पर वो हर तरफ प्रकृती मे अपने हनी का एहसास और विश्वास दिला ही देता है!

और सच ही एहसास जैसी अद्भुत अनुभूति की रचना ईस्वर के सिवा और कौन कर सकता है! एहसास ने अपने चमकीले  रंग से हर वस्तू और विचार मे सत्य और विश्वाश को आज की कायम रखा हुआ है!